I've been in contact (mostly over text) with a guy I met on Match for the last month … Anonymous. Twice we've made plans to meet and he's flaked on me, once at … ... , dating advice, dating other women, flakey guy, guy is acting flaky… My closeted fwb keeps flaking on me...Help!!! For them it's not as much about sex, it's about the thrill of the conquest, the ego boost of all the women in their life. Contact Me. For them it's not as much about sex, it's about the thrill of the conquest, the ego boost of all the women in their life. Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Bondzeibi, Mar 16, 2017. ... on.” Find someone who treats you right the first time around. We were only together for two months and he had already said that he loved me and wanted to be with me. I really like this guy which is extremely rare for me- I don’t usually have this kind of connection with guys . In the beginning everything was good, he texted me everyday, called me a lot, gave me tons of compliments, & whenever I wanted him he was johnny on the spot. For whatever reasons, and ultimately it doesn't even matter why, he's in a place in his life where he's not looking to commit to someone. We all know how much it sucks to be bailed on by a guy, especially if he’s someone you’re into romantically. You want someone who cares about life and what he’s doing here. I'm a virgo, & this guy who I've been f*ck buddies with for like 5months now is a leo. I met this guy a month ago and we've been hanging out every weekend since. Unfortunately this situation arises all of the time, which is why knowing what to say to a man when it does flake on you will make all the difference for winning him over. He's a child. Who Replied? How can you tell if he's falling out of love with you or if he's just relaxing in the relationship and letting his real side show? We all know how much it sucks to be bailed on by a guy, especially if he’s someone you’re into romantically. Thread Tools. Follow. When a guy flakes on you because he’s pursuing easier women to sleep with, he’s freeing up your time and your emotional energy to be with an actual high-value man. You're a backup plan. At first, the flaky guy is really attractive because he’s a far cry from the uptight business-oriented guys you’ve dated before. Anonymous Question: "So I’ve been talking to a guy for about 2 months, but we have yet to meet up for a date. Okay what does it mean when a guy keeps on glancing at you. Facebook. Even though he said he was single and not seeing anyone, part of me is thinking he has a girlfriend and I am just the guy he runs to when he wants to be with a guy once in a while and that's why he refuses to meet me regularly. Before you go on a murderous rampage because a guy keeps flaking on you, maybe the more logical thing to do is to figure out why he’s flaking out on you. Sure, there could have been other reasons he didn’t tell me, but I do believe the reason he gave. He asks me to go out with him again and tells me to call him when I'm on the way so I call him and his phone isn't on! So if the guy you’re into flakes out on you, then your absolute best bet for keeping him interested is to sweetly say or text this to him: “It’s OK. He's not that into you. He seems to be a really nice guy &I don't think hes using me for a booty call cuz i dont let it get far physically. I understand you’re busy. Now are you asking me if you want to be more than a backup plan or are you asking me how you want to stop him from playing with you? About a week before my ex boyfriend dumped me i started talking to this guy i went to school with in middle school/ high school on facebook. He cancels when seeing you might reveal the truth. How to Deal With a Guy Who Keeps Flaking, According to Jake. I have a lot going on the next few days but perhaps we can reschedule for later this week. Re: Why does he keep flaking out on me? For like 2 months now everything has changed.. So you found a guy that you are interested in and you have discovered he is a bit flaky. June 21, 2014 9:45 AM Subscribe. A guy who is flaky may not be responsible, caring, committed, a good communicator, reliable, be settled in his career, sensitive, emotionally available and compassionate because he is not attuned to what you want and what you need.