You don’t want to say it out loud. There used to be people I loved, but not anymore. I don't know if I am posting this in the right section, but here goes. Because if you say it, maybe you’ll give this terrible fear some sort of power. I don't think I can honestly say that I love anyone. I don't think I feel any real compassion for anyone anymore either. “What should we do in situations when we don’t feel like loving? You are not alone but your mind feels alone. I feel more like I am an annoying burden that he has to put up with. The secret to feeling loved by your partner or by others in the world is surprisingly simple: Love yourself, first. It can be a raw, hollow feeling to think that nobody loves you in life. If you can see yourself in any of the above statements, or anything similar that sounds like you simply don’t have a chance because it’s either you or them that’s the problem – you have a serious case of limiting beliefs. I feel sad all the time. It’s a weird form of depression where it can be hardly noticeable because not only are your NOT feeling love or affection, you’re also NOT feeling loneliness and unloved. If you don’t feel it, it isn’t authentic, and thus not real. If you don't feel it's enough, then you need to look elsewhere. Look it up on google. You might be shaking your head, no way could you ever love yourself. I used to. I don't know if I am posting this in the right section, but here goes. And they all give us the same result – we simply don’t meet anyone we feel attracted to. They don’t feel it. Feeling of being alone is in your mind. If you don't feel like God loves you, then you probably feel discouraged, alone, rejected, ugly, and hopeless. I’ve been through so many hard things in my life; for instance, my dad, a professor at Dallas Theological Seminary, died of brain cancer when I was a little kid. I don't feel safe or loved by anyone one. You’re suffering from anhedonia. My mom tells me im worthless and my sister use to threaten to stick a needle in my throat and kill me with it. Because if you say it, maybe you’ll give this terrible fear some sort of power. Try to distance yourself from your mind. I don’t feel loved by anyone and I don’t think anyone loves me. Im a freshman in college. Thread starter 08nomore; Start date May 31, 2019; Welcome to Sanctioned Suicide, a pro-choice forum for the discussion of mental illness, suicide, and the moral implications of the act itself. But what if, despite what everyone says, you still feel alone? However, you may not know how much you are actually loved because of miscommunication or misunderstanding. Like you might somehow speak it into truth. No-one is 'entitled' to such support, it's entirely voluntary. How to Feel Loved. There used to be people I loved, but not anymore. You don’t like what you see, who you are, avoid a mirror at all costs. I don’t feel God’s presence or love. I know I still love him, and although that isn’t going to change, I don’t know if it is enough to stay with him or whether that is even a good idea. I know this sounds like a nonchristian “question,” but I know 100% I am a Christian! This, combined with the definition that love is almost exclusively a warm feeling found deep within us, makes the notion that one should act loving despite not feeling it to be oppressive and a contaminate of love. Whatever you decide, you need to understand that you have no control over how much support an individual gives you: that's up to them. I recommend you get a copy of "The Message" by Eugene Peterson - it's a modern-day Bible paraphrase. Friends have told me that he isn’t treating me right. I don't feel loved by anyone, and I don't think anybody likes me I feel terrible writing about all my problems on the Internet, but I'm at a point in my life where I need advice and I don't want to bother anyone with questions for fear of alienating them. But when you don't feel like God loves you, your “love tank” is not glistening with hope. There may be many reasons why you don't "feel" loved by God anymore.But the simple truth is that God does love you. We do not encourage or aid suicide, the information offered is for educational purposes only. First, the second part of that title isn’t true. Here are three things you can start doing that will help you start to feel God's love. For more information read our FAQ. ... who feel the need to tell their partner that they don’t love them, ... Jake probably cannot give anyone what they would want in a relationship.